We waste time looking for the perfect lover,
instead of creating the perfect love.
Above all, love each other deeply,
because love covers over a multitude of sins.
1 Peter 4:8
We come to love not by finding a perfect person,
but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
This is one of the miracles of love:
It gives a power of seeing through its own enchantments
and yet not being disenchanted.
C S Lewis